Which means I'm turning into myself. Cool!
It also means that the people I spend the most time with are turning into me. Even cooler!
Some of the comments under the place on Facebook where a friend of mine found this atrocious meme are sensible -- other people besides me noticed that it would imply that I also have an effect on others, for example. But those had their downside, for example: "But, if you become like the people you spend time with, who isn't to say, they become more like you. Maybe they can learn to live their lives drama free." Which expresses a central assumption of this meme and others like it, that "you" never create "drama," only other people do. In my experience and observation, that's not true.
Just in passing, another friend found a meme captioned with a saying attributed to the mystic Meister Eckhart, "If the only prayer you said was thank you, that would be enough." I can't find an actual source for it (though Oprah likes it), so I presume it's bogus. But even if Eckhart said it, I disagree. It expresses the worst abusive aspects of spirituality, where the Lord chastiseth and the devotee thanks him for the stripes. At the very mildest, believers need to learn to say "No" to their gods.
Seeing what intelligent people consider spiritual wisdom is generally disheartening to me. I remind myself that I don't know what they've been through -- heavy addictions, in some cases; chronic illnesses and pain, in others; abuse, in still others; and all of the above for yet others -- and what they find useful to ease their pain, but something still seems so wrong here. In particular, I wonder how well these rabbit pellets of affirmation actually work. Are people really happier, healthier, saner, after years of repeating these cliches to themselves? I'm not persuaded.
Then I consider how lucky I've been, how good life has been to me so far. But I can't ignore how unlucky many people have been. Should I thank a deity for sparing me what it has inflicted on others? Rather, I think I should upbraid it for its cruelty, callousness, sadism. That, I'd say, would be one better prayer than "Thank you," if one must pray at all.
Friday, January 10, 2014
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
We Are in America, Darling, We Have to Make Do
This will be short, because I'm swamped again today, reading half-a-dozen books at the same time. One of them I've just begun, Peter Hegarty's Gentlemen's Disagreement: Alfred Kinsey, Lewis Terman, and the Sexual Politics of Smart Men (Chicago, 2013), but it looks promising. I'll probably have more to say about it, but for now I just want to quote a sentence that reflects back on my recent posts on sexual orientation. Early on, Hegarty refers to one of Kinsey's first public presentations of his research into human sexuality:
Second, within the inversion model (which Kinsey rejected, remember), those two “species” are interdependent – inverts need (or think they need) “normal” men or women as sexual partners, since for two inverts to copulate together is taboo. "Normal" men don't need inverts, except as they need people who are "bad," polluted, as extramarital sexual partners. In some ways the invert is preferable to the whore, because the invert reverses the usual practice, and may pay the man to penetrate him. (Not always, though: one of Martin F. Manalansan's New York-based bakla informants told him gleefully that in America in contrast to the Philippines, the man pays the bakla! [Global Divas, Duke UP, 2003, 110]). I hadn't thought of this interdependence before.
His AAAS paper (1941) showed variability in men’s histories that would bedevil any attempt to divide men into two clear species of “homosexuals” and “heterosexuals” [5].There's nothing new here, but two things to notice. First, Kinsey resisted and critiqued what is commonly called the “modern” or “Euro-American” homo/hetero binary; Hegarty is, I believe, alluding to Michel Foucault's claim that "the homosexual", unlike "the sodomite," was regarded as a "species." Kinsey's focus on behavior, as opposed to personality types, supports the notion of sexual "fluidity" to which so many people today pay lip service and then forget. Which makes it all the stranger that he is misunderstood and attacked by academics and others who think they are also engaged in that critique.
Second, within the inversion model (which Kinsey rejected, remember), those two “species” are interdependent – inverts need (or think they need) “normal” men or women as sexual partners, since for two inverts to copulate together is taboo. "Normal" men don't need inverts, except as they need people who are "bad," polluted, as extramarital sexual partners. In some ways the invert is preferable to the whore, because the invert reverses the usual practice, and may pay the man to penetrate him. (Not always, though: one of Martin F. Manalansan's New York-based bakla informants told him gleefully that in America in contrast to the Philippines, the man pays the bakla! [Global Divas, Duke UP, 2003, 110]). I hadn't thought of this interdependence before.
Once, a Philosopher -- Twice, a Secondary Virgin
Right after I finished Sunday's post, I realized I'd missed something. Well, I usually do, and it's always good to have an idea for the next one.
I realized that something else was rubbing me the wrong way about Serena Nanda's remark that the inversion model of homosexuality "in the last three decades has been challenged by a (postmodern) gay ideology, in which both partners in a same-sex sexual relationship are viewed equally in terms of their sexual orientation." Similar claims turn up often in academic writing about the history of homosexuality, and I suddenly realized that, apart from the other objections I could raise about it ("gay" is not "postmodern", for example), Nanda mischaracterizes what the "gay ideology" implies.
Nanda is starting from the idea that in non-Euroamerican cultures, homosexuality is construed as the interaction of a 'normally' gendered person and a gender-variant person. Of course, that construction is also traditional in Euro-(North-)America (though it co-exists with others, as it does elsewhere), and hasn't disappeared yet. According to this model, the gender-variant person (who may be gender-variant only in the role he or she plays in sexual intercourse) is "the homosexual", the gender-normal conformist person is normal, or "unmarked" as the jargon has has it. As I pointed out, there is reasons to consider this claim an exaggeration at best.
From one end, there's the story I've quoted before from Mark Padilla's Caribbean Pleasure Industry (Chicago, 2007), about a bugarrón (a male prostitute, in this context) in the Dominican Republic whose girlfriend learned he was being kept by a Dominican maricón (faggot):
In many if not all of these cases, the boundaries are not as solid as they're supposed to be, and the inverts are ambivalent about it. As Annick Prieur wrote in Mema's House, Mexico City (Chicago, 1998, 166), "bisexual men who are apparently manly but who secretly let themselves be penetrated as if they were homosexuales are often criticized by the vestidas, even when the vestidas are the ones who penetrate them." Barry Reay, in New York Hustlers (Manchester, 2010) tells of "Eddie, who was being pedicated [that is, fucked anally] by both Painter and Melcarth and had begun to worry about enjoying it – ‘Eddie … fucks girls avidly’ – was easily convinced that it merely enlarged his sphere of enjoyment and did not make him ‘queer’" (124). And Mark Padilla reported that "The men in this study often mentioned to me that one or another of their peers was known to 'dar el culo' (give their ass) on occasion, which often produced much hilarity on the part of the storyteller" (96). Though Padilla didn't draw the connection, he also learned that the same men who insisted at first that only other bugarrónes stole from their clients, would eventually admit that they themselves did so; I suspect the same pattern applied at least sometimes to giving ass.
At the same time, Padilla reports that the owner of a local (Dominican) gay bar catering to local gay-identified men told Padilla's research associate:
So it appears that often (not always -- almost nothing is "always" in human societies), the supposedly sharp boundary between penetrator and penetrated turns out to be more permeable than it's supposed to be. That's hardly surprising; as Prieur argues, "when two persons with the same male sexual organs are naked, the construction of one of the partners as a not-homosexual man and of the other one as a not-male person is difficult to upkeep" (274). And: "If it were the whole truth that a man enhanced his masculinity by penetrating other men, they would brag about their exploits with jotos, and one could imagine that the less effeminate the joto were, the more masculinity would the mayate gain from penetrating him, from showing himself as 'more man' than the other. One objection might be that it would create doubt about who penetrated whom. But if we take the group rapes in prison as an example, where other men witness who penetrates whom so there should be no doubt about who gained masculinity, it is still striking that systematically the most effeminate, those who are already jotos, are picked out to be raped. It is their femininity that 'justifies' the abuse [263-4]."
The point I'm arguing is that even where this 'traditional' gendered model of homosexuality predominates, it takes a fair amount of cultural work to maintain the boundaries. It isn't only a supposedly postmodern "gay ideology" that wonders about the normality of the gender-normal partners of gender variants: so do people who live in those pre-modern societies.
This should establish the background I'm working from. So what about this "gay ideology, in which both partners in a same-sex sexual relationship are viewed equally in terms of their sexual orientation"? I think Nanda -- like everybody else, really -- is confused about what "sexual orientation" means, and you really have to sort that out before you can talk about this. According to the American Psychological Association,
I've pointed out before that the prevailing scientific model of homosexuality is that of inversion, not sexual orientation: researchers investigating the causes of sexual orientation assume that a homosexual male is biologically feminized, and a homosexual female is biologically masculinized. Since these researchers are evidently unaware they're making this assumption, they never justify it. They begin by assuming that "a homosexual" is a gender variant, and look for evidence to support that assumption. They don't explain who a homosexual's partner would be, probably because they haven't thought that far. As Nanda acknowledges, and cross-cultural evidence shows, inverts (gender variants) commonly reject the idea of copulating with each other, and they reject it very strenuously, as "lesbianism," "incest," "cannibalism," and the like. There are mileux in which gender variants copulate and form relationships with each other, and contemporary American GLB culture is one of them, some of the time, though there's still widespread fetishizing here of "straight-acting" and even "straight" men as ideal partners -- but if they're really straight (that is, they have a heterosexual orientation by the APA's definition), why would they be having sex with other males? If they are always the penetrator when copulating with other males, then they may not be gender variants, but they don't have an exclusively heterosexual orientation either.
There's also a long tradition of homogender or monogender homosexuality which rejects inversion (effeminacy for men, mannishness for women), though it often involves differences of age or class instead, and it doesn't fit the assumptions of the current research on homosexuality. The monogender model of homosexuality coexists (uneasily) with the inversion model, yet most gay men I've known who reject effeminacy still embrace scientific claims about the innateness of homosexuality that are based on the inversion model. What matters to them, it appears, is being able to assert with scientific support that they are Born That Way, no matter how incoherent and invalid the science is.
It appears to me that this common formulation of the bad "gay ideology" is largely a straw man -- not because contemporary American GLBT culture has a coherent self-understanding, but because the academics studying it are just as confused as their subjects are. I'm not sure I've quite gotten at what is wrong with Nanda's assertion about "(postmodern) gay ideology" and its implications about the orientations of partners in homosexual relationships; but I hope I've exposed some of the confusion in it.
I realized that something else was rubbing me the wrong way about Serena Nanda's remark that the inversion model of homosexuality "in the last three decades has been challenged by a (postmodern) gay ideology, in which both partners in a same-sex sexual relationship are viewed equally in terms of their sexual orientation." Similar claims turn up often in academic writing about the history of homosexuality, and I suddenly realized that, apart from the other objections I could raise about it ("gay" is not "postmodern", for example), Nanda mischaracterizes what the "gay ideology" implies.
Nanda is starting from the idea that in non-Euroamerican cultures, homosexuality is construed as the interaction of a 'normally' gendered person and a gender-variant person. Of course, that construction is also traditional in Euro-(North-)America (though it co-exists with others, as it does elsewhere), and hasn't disappeared yet. According to this model, the gender-variant person (who may be gender-variant only in the role he or she plays in sexual intercourse) is "the homosexual", the gender-normal conformist person is normal, or "unmarked" as the jargon has has it. As I pointed out, there is reasons to consider this claim an exaggeration at best.
From one end, there's the story I've quoted before from Mark Padilla's Caribbean Pleasure Industry (Chicago, 2007), about a bugarrón (a male prostitute, in this context) in the Dominican Republic whose girlfriend learned he was being kept by a Dominican maricón (faggot):
But she saw the guy, and – on top of everything the guy was a real maricón -- and I told her, “No! He’s a maricón! I’m not a maricón, I’m a bugarrón!” … And she said “What do you mean you’re not a maricón, if you live with a man?!” And I said they weren’t the same thing. “What do you mean?” And I said, “No, because he’s the one who receives, and I’m the one who gives” [131].It seems to me that this story, along with the rest of Padilla's ethnography, is evidence that the Dominican male who "gives" is not unmarked, or he'd be simply an hombre instead of a bugarrón. Padilla claims that "the majority of the sex workers with whom I spoke did not seem to feel that being a bugarrón or sanky panky expressed a basic aspect of their identity or personhood" (92); as this story suggests, I'd bet that the situation determines how basic being a bugarrón was to his informants. The same is true of the other cultures I've written about here: in rural South Africa, Graeme Reid wrote that "in ‘location language’, the phrase ‘somehow bended’ refers to ‘straight’ men known or suspected of being available as sexual partners to gays. Those who are ‘somehow bended’ are also referred to as gents" (How to Be a Real Gay [University of KwaZulu-Natal Press, 2013, 60]. In Mexico City, the men who penetrate homosexuales are mayates. In traditional US queer culture, the penetrators of fags, fairies, and queers were trade or jam, and so on.
In many if not all of these cases, the boundaries are not as solid as they're supposed to be, and the inverts are ambivalent about it. As Annick Prieur wrote in Mema's House, Mexico City (Chicago, 1998, 166), "bisexual men who are apparently manly but who secretly let themselves be penetrated as if they were homosexuales are often criticized by the vestidas, even when the vestidas are the ones who penetrate them." Barry Reay, in New York Hustlers (Manchester, 2010) tells of "Eddie, who was being pedicated [that is, fucked anally] by both Painter and Melcarth and had begun to worry about enjoying it – ‘Eddie … fucks girls avidly’ – was easily convinced that it merely enlarged his sphere of enjoyment and did not make him ‘queer’" (124). And Mark Padilla reported that "The men in this study often mentioned to me that one or another of their peers was known to 'dar el culo' (give their ass) on occasion, which often produced much hilarity on the part of the storyteller" (96). Though Padilla didn't draw the connection, he also learned that the same men who insisted at first that only other bugarrónes stole from their clients, would eventually admit that they themselves did so; I suspect the same pattern applied at least sometimes to giving ass.
At the same time, Padilla reports that the owner of a local (Dominican) gay bar catering to local gay-identified men told Padilla's research associate:
“I hope you’re going to prove what we already know: they’re all closet cases [son unos tapa’os].” This implies the existence of a deeper, more authentic sexual identity that is being actively repressed by the bugarrón, who fails to recognize his own fundamental sexuality and public mark himself in terms of his presumed same-sex erotic preference. Such discourses of authenticity are prominent features of North American constructions of gay identity [33]...But "discourses of authenticity" are prominent features in Latin American constructions of masculine identity, as Padilla knows: they involve authentic men (hombre-hombre, muy hombre, mucho hombre, etc.) and women (good women -- mothers, virtuous wives, virgins), and gender variants are not considered authentic. Penetrated males are inauthentic in this discourse by definition. It is interesting, though, that the same gay men who prize muy hombre males like the bugarrón nevertheless want to believe that deep down, they aren't really muy hombre after all. I'm not sure what this means -- it sounds like the misogynist belief that every woman, no matter how good she seems, is really at heart a puta -- but Padilla was too busy fussing about the pollution of authentic Dominican sexual culture by inauthentic North American constructions to notice it, let alone question it. (I see I haven't really addressed the elephant in the room, namely stigma. The penetrated male, like the polluted female, is a stigmatized figure, so rejection of a gender variant identity tends to involve the rejection of stigma -- "I'm not like that" -- rather than a scrupulous concern with accuracy. Maybe I'm overstressing that aspect, but most scholars ignore it altogether.)
So it appears that often (not always -- almost nothing is "always" in human societies), the supposedly sharp boundary between penetrator and penetrated turns out to be more permeable than it's supposed to be. That's hardly surprising; as Prieur argues, "when two persons with the same male sexual organs are naked, the construction of one of the partners as a not-homosexual man and of the other one as a not-male person is difficult to upkeep" (274). And: "If it were the whole truth that a man enhanced his masculinity by penetrating other men, they would brag about their exploits with jotos, and one could imagine that the less effeminate the joto were, the more masculinity would the mayate gain from penetrating him, from showing himself as 'more man' than the other. One objection might be that it would create doubt about who penetrated whom. But if we take the group rapes in prison as an example, where other men witness who penetrates whom so there should be no doubt about who gained masculinity, it is still striking that systematically the most effeminate, those who are already jotos, are picked out to be raped. It is their femininity that 'justifies' the abuse [263-4]."
The point I'm arguing is that even where this 'traditional' gendered model of homosexuality predominates, it takes a fair amount of cultural work to maintain the boundaries. It isn't only a supposedly postmodern "gay ideology" that wonders about the normality of the gender-normal partners of gender variants: so do people who live in those pre-modern societies.
This should establish the background I'm working from. So what about this "gay ideology, in which both partners in a same-sex sexual relationship are viewed equally in terms of their sexual orientation"? I think Nanda -- like everybody else, really -- is confused about what "sexual orientation" means, and you really have to sort that out before you can talk about this. According to the American Psychological Association,
Sexual orientation is an enduring emotional, romantic, sexual, or affectional attraction toward others. It is easily distinguished from other components of sexuality including biological sex, gender identity (the psychological sense of being male or female), and the social gender role (adherence to cultural norms for feminine and masculine behavior).On one hand, going by this definition, it doesn't matter whether you're a top or a bottom, a butch or a femme: if you have an enduring emotional, etc. attraction toward persons of your own sex, your sexual orientation is homosexual or perhaps bisexual. Whether you are "a homosexual" is another question; this definition doesn't answer it. The APA's definition founders a bit on "enduring" -- how "enduring" must it be? Must it be exclusive to one sex, or can it extend to both sexes? It doesn't follow from this that "both partners in a homosexual relationship" are homosexual by orientation, however: they might both be bisexual, they might even both be heterosexual -- though the latter seems unlikely if the "relationship" lasts for long. How many "homosexual relationships" can you have before you qualify as "a homosexual"? If by "homosexual relationship" Nanda means a relationship between two people of the same sex, the term implies nothing about their respective sexual orientations; if she means "a relationship between two homosexuals," where "homosexuals" means two people of homosexual orientation, then it does imply something about their orientations -- but it's also tautological. "Homosexual relationship" refers to the sex(es) of the people involved, not to their identities, subjectivities, or sexual orientations; the same goes for "heterosexual relationship." But Nanda, like most writers on this subject, seems not to have thought her definition through.
I've pointed out before that the prevailing scientific model of homosexuality is that of inversion, not sexual orientation: researchers investigating the causes of sexual orientation assume that a homosexual male is biologically feminized, and a homosexual female is biologically masculinized. Since these researchers are evidently unaware they're making this assumption, they never justify it. They begin by assuming that "a homosexual" is a gender variant, and look for evidence to support that assumption. They don't explain who a homosexual's partner would be, probably because they haven't thought that far. As Nanda acknowledges, and cross-cultural evidence shows, inverts (gender variants) commonly reject the idea of copulating with each other, and they reject it very strenuously, as "lesbianism," "incest," "cannibalism," and the like. There are mileux in which gender variants copulate and form relationships with each other, and contemporary American GLB culture is one of them, some of the time, though there's still widespread fetishizing here of "straight-acting" and even "straight" men as ideal partners -- but if they're really straight (that is, they have a heterosexual orientation by the APA's definition), why would they be having sex with other males? If they are always the penetrator when copulating with other males, then they may not be gender variants, but they don't have an exclusively heterosexual orientation either.
There's also a long tradition of homogender or monogender homosexuality which rejects inversion (effeminacy for men, mannishness for women), though it often involves differences of age or class instead, and it doesn't fit the assumptions of the current research on homosexuality. The monogender model of homosexuality coexists (uneasily) with the inversion model, yet most gay men I've known who reject effeminacy still embrace scientific claims about the innateness of homosexuality that are based on the inversion model. What matters to them, it appears, is being able to assert with scientific support that they are Born That Way, no matter how incoherent and invalid the science is.
It appears to me that this common formulation of the bad "gay ideology" is largely a straw man -- not because contemporary American GLBT culture has a coherent self-understanding, but because the academics studying it are just as confused as their subjects are. I'm not sure I've quite gotten at what is wrong with Nanda's assertion about "(postmodern) gay ideology" and its implications about the orientations of partners in homosexual relationships; but I hope I've exposed some of the confusion in it.
Monday, January 6, 2014
Infantile Fantasies of Omnipotence
I know, I know -- I'm saying that like it's a bad thing. Anyway, some brief items as I sit at home today, confined by the cold weather.
"Love it," wrote a friend as she linked to this online comic about a young kid's introduction to role-playing games. She's bi, educated, happily coupled with a woman, culturally sensitive, a Unitarian. The kid in the comic learns that he can, within the game's world, decapitate an enemy with a broadsword and toss the head derisively aside. "I can do that?" Yes he can. "A childish action, steeming [sic] from a morbid, juvenile fury," the narrator says (though such fantasies remain a staple of gaming, including computer gaming, for adults -- it's one thing if you outgrow it, but many people never do). The boy discovers that he can play "without board, without figurines ... then even without a character sheet or dice." "They can call you childish, huge nerds, say that you're trying to escape reality, but your brains are a tangible component of this reality ... and within their fathomless synapses ... everything is possible" (ellipses in the original). But "this reality" isn't reality, and even in gaming, everything isn't possible -- each world has its constraints and limits; that's intrinsic to gaming and world creation.
I suspect that these panels were intended as the beginning of a longer story. But standing alone as they do here, they're tremendously creepy. (Especially when they're recommended by a person who's scornful of the detachment from reality of fundamentalist Christians and conservative Republicans. Let her who is without sin ...) Partly my alienation is probably generational, though I grew up on superhero comics and I know the appeal of infantile fantasies of omnipotence. Dorothy Dinnerstein's The Mermaid and the Minotaur gave me useful insights into what they mean and why they must be outgrown. If you want to indulge in them -- and it's valid to do so as recreation -- you must have a critical distance from them at the same time. I don't see that critical distance here.
Democracy Now reported today that Senator Bernie Sanders is inquiring whether the National Security Agency is spying on members of Congress. The NSA replied reassuringly that "members of Congress have "the same privacy protections as all U.S. persons.'" Which means none at all, so that's all right then. Just asking!
Emptywheel has a useful post today on corporate media / corporate government attacks on Edward Snowden, particularly the allegation that he violated his sacred vow to be obedient and keep government secrets. (Similar attacks were made on Chelsea Bradley Manning, you may recall.) First, as emptywheel points out, the documents Snowden signed as a government contractor do not contain any such provisions. Snowden recently argued (via), quite reasonably, that by revealing those secrets he was defending the Constitution. There has been talk about an offer of "some kind of amnesty" to Snowden, but emptywheel sensibly dismisses it "as I think he could never accept the terms being offered, it arises in part out of NSA’s PR effort, and distracts from the ongoing revelations." Real amnesty or clemency would be acceptable, but who in his right mind would trust the Obama administration and the national security to offer the real thing?
But it popped into my mind as I read the post that there's an echo in the attacks on Snowden of the attacks on Phil Robertson, who was suspended by A&E because his offensive remarks about homosexuality and African-Americans and teen brides violated his sacred contract with his employer. Those arguments came from liberals, at least some of whom approve of Edward Snowden's actions, but many of whom don't. As I've argued, the control that corporate entities and other private-sector employers want to (and largely do) exercise over their employees is just as disturbing a threat to liberty as repressive actions by the government. Vague and open-ended promises of compliance in order to get a job are about as morally (as opposed to legally) binding, it seems to me, as the open-ended giving of consent in the marriage contract, which was used for many years to justify forced sex in marriage. (A wife had already given her consent to her husband as part of her sacred wedding vows, so she couldn't shirk her marital duty until death did them part. It seems that many institutions like to extract open-ended commitments from weaker parties in contracts.)
Which reminds me, last night another liberal friend posted a link to a post -- from the corporate business rag Forbes, yet! -- about the blowback to some corporate CEOs after they announced they were going to cut back on workers' hours so they wouldn't be eligible for medical insurance. The post mainly discusses "brand identity" but also mentions that some chains have seen declining business and therefore profits as a result of their contempt for their employees. Papa John CEO John Schnatter, says the writer, "was forced to publish an op-ed piece where he sought to convince us that he never really intended to cut back worker hours but had simply been speculating on what he might do in response to the legislation." This isn't exactly news, but I'm pleased to hear that the public's memory is ill-disciplined enough that these businesses are still feeling the pain a year later.
But it occurred to me: if Phil Robertson could be suspended, however temporarily, for bigoted remarks that only potentially affected A&E's ratings and bottom line, shouldn't Schnatter and other CEOs whose political agenda has demonstrably embarrassed their companies and hurt stock prices and profits be disciplined too? Surely their employments contracts have clauses about such things. It would never happen, of course: CEOs get their salaries and stock options and bonuses even when they run their companies into the ground.
Finally, speaking of bigoted remarks, at the end of Alternative Radio today our community radio station played a song by Santee Sioux singer/songwriter John Trudell, "Bombs Over Baghdad." I don't know if it was part of the program or a space-filler before Democracy Now, but a few lines caught my attention. I've bolded the ear-perking bits:
(That's the St. Joseph Lighthouse on Lake Michigan, encrusted in ice and snow. Someone posted the picture to Facebook; I don't know if he was the original source. [P.S. Turns out the photographer is named Thomas Zakowski.)
"Love it," wrote a friend as she linked to this online comic about a young kid's introduction to role-playing games. She's bi, educated, happily coupled with a woman, culturally sensitive, a Unitarian. The kid in the comic learns that he can, within the game's world, decapitate an enemy with a broadsword and toss the head derisively aside. "I can do that?" Yes he can. "A childish action, steeming [sic] from a morbid, juvenile fury," the narrator says (though such fantasies remain a staple of gaming, including computer gaming, for adults -- it's one thing if you outgrow it, but many people never do). The boy discovers that he can play "without board, without figurines ... then even without a character sheet or dice." "They can call you childish, huge nerds, say that you're trying to escape reality, but your brains are a tangible component of this reality ... and within their fathomless synapses ... everything is possible" (ellipses in the original). But "this reality" isn't reality, and even in gaming, everything isn't possible -- each world has its constraints and limits; that's intrinsic to gaming and world creation.
I suspect that these panels were intended as the beginning of a longer story. But standing alone as they do here, they're tremendously creepy. (Especially when they're recommended by a person who's scornful of the detachment from reality of fundamentalist Christians and conservative Republicans. Let her who is without sin ...) Partly my alienation is probably generational, though I grew up on superhero comics and I know the appeal of infantile fantasies of omnipotence. Dorothy Dinnerstein's The Mermaid and the Minotaur gave me useful insights into what they mean and why they must be outgrown. If you want to indulge in them -- and it's valid to do so as recreation -- you must have a critical distance from them at the same time. I don't see that critical distance here.
Democracy Now reported today that Senator Bernie Sanders is inquiring whether the National Security Agency is spying on members of Congress. The NSA replied reassuringly that "members of Congress have "the same privacy protections as all U.S. persons.'" Which means none at all, so that's all right then. Just asking!
Emptywheel has a useful post today on corporate media / corporate government attacks on Edward Snowden, particularly the allegation that he violated his sacred vow to be obedient and keep government secrets. (Similar attacks were made on Chelsea Bradley Manning, you may recall.) First, as emptywheel points out, the documents Snowden signed as a government contractor do not contain any such provisions. Snowden recently argued (via), quite reasonably, that by revealing those secrets he was defending the Constitution. There has been talk about an offer of "some kind of amnesty" to Snowden, but emptywheel sensibly dismisses it "as I think he could never accept the terms being offered, it arises in part out of NSA’s PR effort, and distracts from the ongoing revelations." Real amnesty or clemency would be acceptable, but who in his right mind would trust the Obama administration and the national security to offer the real thing?
But it popped into my mind as I read the post that there's an echo in the attacks on Snowden of the attacks on Phil Robertson, who was suspended by A&E because his offensive remarks about homosexuality and African-Americans and teen brides violated his sacred contract with his employer. Those arguments came from liberals, at least some of whom approve of Edward Snowden's actions, but many of whom don't. As I've argued, the control that corporate entities and other private-sector employers want to (and largely do) exercise over their employees is just as disturbing a threat to liberty as repressive actions by the government. Vague and open-ended promises of compliance in order to get a job are about as morally (as opposed to legally) binding, it seems to me, as the open-ended giving of consent in the marriage contract, which was used for many years to justify forced sex in marriage. (A wife had already given her consent to her husband as part of her sacred wedding vows, so she couldn't shirk her marital duty until death did them part. It seems that many institutions like to extract open-ended commitments from weaker parties in contracts.)
Which reminds me, last night another liberal friend posted a link to a post -- from the corporate business rag Forbes, yet! -- about the blowback to some corporate CEOs after they announced they were going to cut back on workers' hours so they wouldn't be eligible for medical insurance. The post mainly discusses "brand identity" but also mentions that some chains have seen declining business and therefore profits as a result of their contempt for their employees. Papa John CEO John Schnatter, says the writer, "was forced to publish an op-ed piece where he sought to convince us that he never really intended to cut back worker hours but had simply been speculating on what he might do in response to the legislation." This isn't exactly news, but I'm pleased to hear that the public's memory is ill-disciplined enough that these businesses are still feeling the pain a year later.
But it occurred to me: if Phil Robertson could be suspended, however temporarily, for bigoted remarks that only potentially affected A&E's ratings and bottom line, shouldn't Schnatter and other CEOs whose political agenda has demonstrably embarrassed their companies and hurt stock prices and profits be disciplined too? Surely their employments contracts have clauses about such things. It would never happen, of course: CEOs get their salaries and stock options and bonuses even when they run their companies into the ground.
Finally, speaking of bigoted remarks, at the end of Alternative Radio today our community radio station played a song by Santee Sioux singer/songwriter John Trudell, "Bombs Over Baghdad." I don't know if it was part of the program or a space-filler before Democracy Now, but a few lines caught my attention. I've bolded the ear-perking bits:
Bombs over Baghdad, Bombs over BaghdadAh, once again a progressive shows his righteousness by calling his enemies queer. How very Sixties. It's good that Trudell is so harshly critical of the invasion of Iraq -- not all Native American singers have been -- but what is this fag-baiting about? Understand, I'm not calling in the drones, nor am I saying that Trudell is a monster beyond redemption; I'm not calling for a boycott of his music; I'm saying that he's a homophobe and should called to account for it. This isn't a white vs. Indian issue: some two-spirit folks should have a talk with him.
Bombs over Baghdad, Dancers of Death
Murder in the air, with the next breath
Macho Queens selling war-makers toys
Raining Destruction, Good Old Boys
Death bringer In Queen George's Eyes
Read his lips, war-maker lies
(That's the St. Joseph Lighthouse on Lake Michigan, encrusted in ice and snow. Someone posted the picture to Facebook; I don't know if he was the original source. [P.S. Turns out the photographer is named Thomas Zakowski.)
Sunday, January 5, 2014
Girls Will Be Boys and Boys Will Be Girls
I just read a short (106 pages of text) book, Gender Diversity: Crosscultural Variations (Waveland Press, 2000) by Serena Nanda. Nanda, a cultural anthropologist, is the author of an ethnographic study of the hijras of India, though lately, as a professor emerita, she's been working on a series of "anthropological murder mysteries." Gender Diversity is meant as a brief introduction to its subject, and it's good that its crosscultural scope (while limited) includes Europe and America. But there are problems, which are all the more visible in such a short book. That's a good thing, but it doesn't make the problems go away.
There are some errors that are clearly Nanda's fault, like her reference to "the Genesis story, in which Adam creates Eve from his own loins" (87). Of course in the second Genesis creation myth, it is Yahweh who creates Eve, from Adam's rib. Less egregious but still significant is the claim that in Plato’s Symposium "Aristophanes argues that three sexes were part of an original human nature, “man, woman, and the union of the two …. having a double nature” before all three groups were split in half by Zeus (Symposium 252-3); as a consequence, human beings spend their lives seeking their lost other half. Aristophanes doesn't "argue", he simply declares that he's talking about the original human condition. Moreover, the primordial humans with the "double nature" were the source of what we now would call heterosexuals: "Now all who are the men's slice from the common genus, which was then called androgynous, are lovers of women; and many adulterers have been of this genus; and, in turn, all who are women of this genus prove to be lovers of men and adulteresses." Those males who became lovers of other males, and those females who became lovers of other females, were originally single-natured, so to speak. Classical Greece also had stereotypes of effeminate, sexually receptive males, which we know about from hearsay. The institution of pederasty, in which adult male erastoi courted and loved adolescent male eromenoi, distanced itself from effeminacy in either partner. So Aristophanes' myth has little if anything to do with the kind of gender variation Nanda is writing about.
Most of Nanda's exemplars of gender variation are our contemporaries, who can be studied and interviewed directly. In the case of American Indians (as with some African variations, but Nanda doesn't cover Africa in Gender Diversity), this is less true, though that's changing. So, like others writing about this subject, Nanda must rely on older travelers' and ethnographic accounts, which often leads to trouble. Her description of gender variants -- alyha (males) and hwame (females) -- among the Mojave, for example, is "based on interviews by anthropologist George Devereux (1937) with some old informants who remembered the transvestite ceremony and had heard stories about gender variant individuals from their elders" (21). Devereux, then, was writing about a phenomenon he'd never encountered personally, often at third-hand ("stories [they had heard] about gender variant individuals from their elders"). So I'm a bit skeptical about the rather detailed description of alyha sexual behavior Nanda provides, especially since she also apparently accepts John H. Honigmann's account of "female berdaches" among the Kaska of the Yukon -- also based on interviews with gender-normative male Kaska informants who hadn't met such individuals themselves but had heard stories about them from their elders. Honigmann's work was dissected by Jean-Guy A. Goulet in his contribution to Two-Spirit People (ed. Jacobs, Thomas, and Lang [Illinois, 1997]). Nanda knows and cites that collection, but evidently didn't read Goulet's piece, since she claims that "Among the Kaska, a family who had only daughters might select one to 'be like a man'; by engaging in the male activity of hunting, she would help provide the family with food" (24). That's exactly what Goulet cast doubt on. (Such selection isn't unknown in the West, if only as folklore; see, for example, Isabel Miller's novel Patience and Sarah, one of whose protagonists was raised "as a boy" in a large family with no sons.)
Luckily, we can talk to real gender variants around the world today, and observe how their families and neighbors treat them. Nanda herself talked at length to hijra, for example, as did Gayatri Reddy in With Respect to Sex (Chicago, 2005). We also have numerous works by gay Indian writers, based in India itself or in the diaspora. One hijra, A. Revathi, has written his own autobiography in English, The Truth About Me (Penguin Global, 2011). Martin F. Manalansan IV, an anthropologist who identifies himself as a bakla, has written about the experience of Filipino gender variants in the US; J. Neil Garcia, another bakla academic, has written about bakla and gay life in the Philippines.
Because Gender Diversity is such a short book, its contradictions are thrown into relief, which is handy. Nanda makes the typical errors on gender variation in the West, saying now that the Western model of homosexuality is homogender, and then that it is based on inversion. So, for example, she writes that Brazil assimilated a "modern Euro-American 'medical' model of sex/gender relations ... in the late late-nineteeth and early-twentieth centuries." But this model
…in the last three decades has been challenged by a (postmodern) gay ideology, in which both partners in a same-sex sexual relationship are viewed equally in terms of their sexual orientation. This model, which continues the homosexual /heterosexual divide of the medical model, but without its pejorative connotions [sic], is gaining a foothold in the more highly industrialized urban centers of the South (Rio and Sao Paulo), as well as among the more wealthy and educated classes throughout Brazil [55-6].To her credit, she recognizes that "In Brazil, as increasingly in many contemporary cultures, several sex/gender ideologies coexist" (55), but this has always been true in contemporary cultures and in the past as well. (Compare classical Greece, with its homogender but age-stratified institution of pederasty which coexisted with a model of penetrable effeminate males.) As for the "postmodern" (?) ideology, "in which both partners in a same-sex sexual relationship are viewed equally in terms of their sexual orientation," this is a gross oversimplification. The "ideology" that only the penetrated male was "homosexual" was current, and perhaps dominant, in the United States until the middle of the twentieth century, and the denigration of effeminacy has meant that many males in a variety of cultures have used flaming queens as cover for their own activities. In Mexico (as in much of Latin America), for example, the queen with plucked eyebrows, makeup, and a wardrobe of gowns is the official metonym of male homosexuality, and anthropologists have often mistaken the part for the whole. (Vestidas are so much easier to find and study.) But gay male anthropologists and travelers have found plenty of sexual partners in such places without having to put on a dress or wig, and there's so much homogender activity going on that perhaps we should be more skeptical whether the activo/pasivo model is actually gendered. (The same goes for contemporary South Africa, where the white anthropologist Graeme Reid was propositioned by black men who wanted to penetrate him, even though he didn't fit the codes of the lady that supposedly governed male/male sex there.) For that matter, a naive observer might conclude from popular entertainment that a gendered ideology of homosexuality was dominant in the US, and many people do. Maybe it is.
I enjoyed this remark by Nanda about Thailand, especially after some people I know on Facebook were getting their pants in a bunch about American evangelicals who blame earthquakes on Teh Gay:
Same-sex/gender eroticism (what would be called homosexuality in the modern West) was considered inauspicious, resulting in natural disasters, such as droughts, being struck dead by lightning, or becoming crazy. These consequences do not appear to have been directed at (heterogender) man/kathoey relationships … [74](Kathoey [กะเทย] are the feminine transgenderish males in Thai society.) And, of course, she mentions numerous times that "gender variants" almost never, in any culture, copulate with other "gender variants" -- that would be "lesbianism," "incest," even "cannibalism." For example:
And, similar to India, Brazil, Thailand and the Philippines, but in contrast to the West, gender nonconformists [in the Pacific Islands] do not have sex with each other [74].However, it is not true that gender nonconformists in "the West" normally have sex with each other, as Nanda here implies. For one thing, Latin America is part of "the West"; more important, the idea of two sissies "bumping pussies" (as queens I've known delicately put it) is as outrageous in some contemporary American circles as it is in Rio, Mexico City, Bangkok, Hyderabad, or Manila. Try this for size, from John C. Howard's Men Like That (Chicago, 1999): "A drop of sissy come would choke us. If we were going to go down on anybody, they would have to be men, trade" (122). I heard this sentiment expressed in the gay communities of southern Indiana in the early 1970s.
I'm also skeptical about the claim, which is not particular to Nanda, that "The sexual partners of gender variants were never considered gender variants themselves" (17). As she says a few pages later, Mohave gender variants' "husbands were teased for marrying them" (21). Numerous scholars have doubted similar claims about males who penetrate other males in Latin American societies: Annick Prieur is one observer among others who's found it difficult to get mayates (gender-normative Mexican men who penetrate Mexican sissies) to admit, let alone talk about their same-sex copulations; see Mema's House, Mexico City (Chicago, 1998). Stephen O. Murray has written, more stringently, that
Whether the complementary role is a "gay macho" (bujarron) indifferent to what he penetrates is a matter of some controversy among observers -- and also one of dissensus among natives ... Usually, the category is linguistically unmarked (hombre-man) although Schifter and Madrigal reported hombres de verdad (true men), Lancaster attested the reduplicated (hence, highly marked) hombre-hombre, and Tierno listed muy hombre and mucho hombre (very man and much man). The masculine partner, then, at least sometimes is referred to with linguistically marked forms and is, thereby, distinguished from men in general [50].And, he adds:
Latinos with whom I have discussed claims that masculinity can be enhanced by fucking a maricon vociferously disagree with Lancaster's assertion that fucking men enhances "male honor." They also question the extent of banter about homosexual exploits among adults in Latino cultures ... Lancaster does not appear to have asked direct questions of the residents of the working class barrio in Managua, Nicaragua, among whom he lived[,] about whether one gains honor from using a pasivo (cochon in the local lexicon) [54] ...Murray also notes that Lancaster might have produced a more accurate picture of Nicaraguan society if he had "studied those who call themselves cochones rather than picking up tidbits of hombre-hombres' views of cochones" (56n8). These considerations may not refute Nanda's remarks, but they do complicate them and the consensus she represents. Although she cites several authors from the collection in which Murray's critique appears (Stephen O. Murray, Latin American Male Homosexualities (New Mexico, 1995), she evidently skipped his contributions, just as she missed Goulet's in Two-Spirit People.
It's ironic that Nanda, like so many of her colleagues, opposes "third sex" and "third gender" concepts to "modern" (or are they "postmodern"?) "Euro-American" ideologies. The thing is, "third sex" and "third gender" are both Western concepts, developed in the nineteenth century* by European doctors and disseminated (along with Euro-American homophobia) to doctors and lawyers around the world. Whether, or how well, these concepts actually correspond to non-Western figures like bakla, hijra, katoey can be and should be discussed more, but like "queer," which is also applied indiscriminately, regardless of culture or era, they are Western in origin and content.
While Gender Diversity is a good introduction to its subject for undergraduates, it also shows some gaping holes in the Euro-American academic account of sex and gender, whether of the "West" or elsewhere. That could be a good thing, if it leads to a reconsideration of the consensus.
*In fact the idea of a "third sex" has been traced back to the second-century North African Christian father Tertullian, who wrote in his treatise To the Nations:
You ['O unjust pagans'] too have in your midst a third gender -- not so much a third religious persuasion -- but a third sex. They are well suited for both male pleasure and for female pleasure, endowed with male and female aptitudes. Do we offend you with this particular shared affinity? Equality lends force to envy. Thus the potter envies the potter and the craftsman envies the craftsman.I learned this from Willy [Henri Gauthier-Villars, 1859-1931], The Third Sex [ET of Le Troisième Sèxe, 1927] Translated and with an introduction and notes by Lawrence R. Schehr. Urbana and Chicago: University of Illinois Press, 2007, page 99n4. The things a promiscuous reader finds ...
Friday, January 3, 2014
Every Man for Himself
Alan Sinfield is pretty prolific: I need to pay more attention to what he publishes. I hadn't heard of Out on Stage: Lesbian and Gay Theatre in the Twentieth Century (Yale, 1999) until I stumbled on a copy in a used bookstore, and I grabbed it. It's an interesting survey, mostly of English-language GLB theatre, though it often felt a bit rushed, even at 350 pages of text; I'd have been pleased to see him say more on many of the plays he discusses. I wouldn't be surprised if he had to trim it down for publication. In any case, it's worth reading if you're interested in the subject, though I imagine most people who are would already have read it.
At one point in his discussion of drama dealing with AIDS, Sinfield contrasts American work with British, noting that mainstream theater in the UK produced much less original work on the subject, because of the different trajectory of the epidemic there. (Most of the well-known US plays were staged in London, though.) But there's another difference he finds:
"Despite its political pitch," Sinfield adds, "The Normal Heart tends always to pose issues as interpersonal dilemmas" (323-4). On one hand, that's to be expected in drama, which uses people and their interaction to make its points. On the other hand, it's especially typical of art and entertainment in the US. One of the reasons Korean cinema was a revelation to me was its ability to situate characters in their society, with much more realistic political awareness than I've ever seen in US product. Even a melodramatic TV series like Sandglass (1995) was anchored in Korean history in a way that I can't imagine any TV show in the US bothering with. And right now the top-grossing film in South Korea is The Attorney, about human rights lawyers who defended victims of torture during the dictatorship that ruled South Korea from 1961 to 1987. (I knew I should have gone to Korea for the holidays; I could probably have seen it, since big films are shown in select theatres with English subtitles during their first run. But it'll be out on DVD soon enough.)
I've noticed before that Americans are prone to see political conflict as "interpersonal dilemmas." Kramer, again, fits the pattern well: in the 1980s he largely blamed New York City Mayor Ed Koch and President Reagan for the epidemic, with a personal venom that overlooked structural and systemic factors. I now understand that this wasn't just political strategy: he genuinely thought they were personally responsible, just like in the movies. So it's funny when the Obama devotee and journalist (and former ACT-UP activist!) Garance Franke-Ruta laments the "fanfictionalization" of US politics; it has ever been thus. (Ma! Ma! Where's my pa? In the White House, ha ha ha!) Franke-Ruta admits this, but she can't see that she's part of the problem. US politics has always been a sports bout, with the respective fans cheering on their team and its star. The American fantasy of individualism, with its rejection of human interdependence, fits this tendency perfectly, enshrined in entertainment, political philosophy, and the social sciences.
At one point in his discussion of drama dealing with AIDS, Sinfield contrasts American work with British, noting that mainstream theater in the UK produced much less original work on the subject, because of the different trajectory of the epidemic there. (Most of the well-known US plays were staged in London, though.) But there's another difference he finds:
The fact is, although the characters in the [American] plays discussed here are outlaws in that they are gay, in other respects almost all of them are notably privileged -- white, male, affluent, professional, metropolitan ... These men have no tradition of political dissidence. They had not expected to need the State, and when they do they cannot quite believe that it is not on their side. In Love! Valour! Compassion! the men hear a gay demonstration being broken up -- 'They've always hated us. It never ends, the fucking hatred' (107). But it is at a safe distance, in Seattle, on the television. When Mickey in The Normal Heart gives voice to suspicions which challenge US democratic ideology -- suggesting that the virus may have originated as a military experiment -- he is quickly declared to be having a mental breakdown and hustled out of the action (67-68). In 1995, in an interview with Lisa Power, Kramer says that lately he has been 'accepting and facing ... that all these myths I have swallowed about humanity and American and "one voice can make a difference" -- these things that we're all taught, that democracy works and all -- turn out to be bullshit when you're gay or you have AIDS or are a member of a minority or whatever the reason'. 'That was a surprise?' Power asks [323].Notice that Kramer gave that interview after years of experience in AIDS activism, mostly with ACT-UP, which he founded. But then, even though he lived through the Civil Rights Movement and the movement against the US invasion of Vietnam, he'd never had much interest in politics. According to the Wikipedia page on Kramer:
Initially, while living on Fire Island in the 1970s, Kramer had no intention of getting involved in political activism. There were politically active groups in New York City, but Kramer notes the culture on Fire Island was so different that they would often make fun of political activists: "It was not chic. It was not something you could brag about with your friends... Guys marching down Fifth Avenue was a whole other world. The whole gestalt of Fire Island was about beauty and looks and golden men."But then AIDS invaded Paradise, and like so many other privileged gay men, Kramer found that money and chic offered no protection against the plague. Yet even fourteen years after reality came crashing down on his head, Kramer was evidently still struggling with it, and apparently only as it affected him and people like him. I guess this isn't surprising: of course men (mostly they are men, of course) who thought they were part of the State, or at least part of the classes that run our society, were indignant when their sense of entitlement hit a brick wall because they were queer. Of course they have no experience with political dissidence; dissidents are the Other, the losers raging ignorantly and impotently outside the Inner Circle of the Cool People.
"Despite its political pitch," Sinfield adds, "The Normal Heart tends always to pose issues as interpersonal dilemmas" (323-4). On one hand, that's to be expected in drama, which uses people and their interaction to make its points. On the other hand, it's especially typical of art and entertainment in the US. One of the reasons Korean cinema was a revelation to me was its ability to situate characters in their society, with much more realistic political awareness than I've ever seen in US product. Even a melodramatic TV series like Sandglass (1995) was anchored in Korean history in a way that I can't imagine any TV show in the US bothering with. And right now the top-grossing film in South Korea is The Attorney, about human rights lawyers who defended victims of torture during the dictatorship that ruled South Korea from 1961 to 1987. (I knew I should have gone to Korea for the holidays; I could probably have seen it, since big films are shown in select theatres with English subtitles during their first run. But it'll be out on DVD soon enough.)
I've noticed before that Americans are prone to see political conflict as "interpersonal dilemmas." Kramer, again, fits the pattern well: in the 1980s he largely blamed New York City Mayor Ed Koch and President Reagan for the epidemic, with a personal venom that overlooked structural and systemic factors. I now understand that this wasn't just political strategy: he genuinely thought they were personally responsible, just like in the movies. So it's funny when the Obama devotee and journalist (and former ACT-UP activist!) Garance Franke-Ruta laments the "fanfictionalization" of US politics; it has ever been thus. (Ma! Ma! Where's my pa? In the White House, ha ha ha!) Franke-Ruta admits this, but she can't see that she's part of the problem. US politics has always been a sports bout, with the respective fans cheering on their team and its star. The American fantasy of individualism, with its rejection of human interdependence, fits this tendency perfectly, enshrined in entertainment, political philosophy, and the social sciences.
Wednesday, January 1, 2014
My Top 25 Posts of 2013
So, one year ends and another begins. I'm a bit shocked to see how much less I wrote this year; it's the first time I've posted below 300 a year since 2009. But I think I wrote quite a few good ones, so I'm not very concerned. Several of them were basically series, written as I read stimulating books. (Lately I've been toying with the idea of putting together an e-book from the blog, whether from more or less unrevised posts or compiling series into chapters. Still thinking about that.)
Once again I decided to list the most-viewed posts to sum up the past year. Most of them are posts I agree are standouts, though as you'll see, I was very surprised by a couple of them. This post will serve as a retrospective for those who read This Is So Gay regularly, and as an introduction for people who are new to the blog.
25. You Don't Have to Be a Monster to Be a Bigot. The theme of this post turned out to be a recurring theme in 2013, as several celebrities got into trouble because of racist or antigay things they said, and were defended by fans or supposedly disinterested friends of free speech. As you'll see, I don't believe in the disinterest: in almost every case, conservatives defended conservative bigots and liberals defended liberals. (As the year drew to a close, another uproar attended a conference punk/folk performer Ani DiFranco was going to hold in a former Louisiana plantation. Here's the best thing I saw written about that one.) But I'm also intrigued by the common defense in most of these cases: the idea that calling a bigot a bigot is "demonization," transgressing the bounds of civility in public discourse. That countertactic is nothing new, but it seems to be on the rise.
24. He Brought Me Out. The subtle (sometimes not-so-subtle) eroticism of Christian imagery.
23. Declarations of Dependence. On reading May Sarton's journals about living alone, and adjusting to increasing dependence in her old age.
22. Oooohhh! I Scared Myself. Griping again about the Obama administration's inability to deal firmly but constructively with its opposition. (I looked for a video or audio clip of Tweety Bird's reading of the title line, but couldn't find one.)
21. Real Jesuses Don't Sparkle. Another post on popular Christian imagery, written before the fuss about Fox News anchor Megyn Kelly's assertion that Jesus and Santa Claus are really "white men."
20. Free Advice, Five Cents (The Doctor Is In). Freedom isn't free, including free healthcare. But that's okay.
19. Well, I Don't Speak Cracker. On the "nativist" (racist) reaction to Spanish-speaking people in the United States. (This 2013 post on "natives" didn't get as much traffic, but I think it's better.)
18. Word-Sex. A short post on grammar/spelling/pronunciation neurotics, inspired by a lovely reflection on language by Stephen Fry.
17. Perros Cruzados; or, Just As American as Everyone Else. A followup to my post on Sebastian de la Cruz, the eleven-year-old American kid who infuriated Anglo racists by singing the National Anthem (in English) on national television.
16. "Come With Me If You Want to Live" -- James Cameron. A variation on an ongoing issue, namely the authenticity of quotations from celebrities in memes on Facebook. This case intersects with the popular tendency to confuse actors with the roles they play.
15. You're Stupid, Therefore I'm Smart QED. Sure, it's fun to make fun of right-wing foolishness. It provides material for many liberal and progressive blog posts. But The Enemy of My Enemy Is Not My Friend, and just because someone else is wrong, it doesn't follow that I'm (or you're) right. The commenters of numerous liberal blogs and sites spend a lot of time bonding with each other over the stupidity of conservatives, which is a handy way of ignoring stupidity on one's own side. And alas, there's plenty to go around. As Nietzsche once wrote, it's a very popular popular misconception that having the courage of one's convictions (against opposition) is important -- rather, it's having the courage for an attack on one's own convictions. The post also deals with some questions about the nature of Art.
14. The Way It Really Went Down, Sort Of. Sure, heterosexual culture has its blind spots, crudities, and abuses. So does gay men's culture, which is the one I'm stuck with, even if I'm a fringe figure in it. And many of our blind spots, crudities, and abuses are depressingly similar to those of straights. Funny, that.
13. The Only Gays in the Global Village. Quite a few celebrities came out publicly this year. Some were surprising, at least to some people, others were not.
12. Groping the Truth. This post consists mostly of two long quotations from thinkers I admire. I don't know why it got so much traffic, but since the quotations have been important to me, I'm glad others apparently liked them.
11. Taking Jobs Away from Tape and Giving Them to Microchips. This post is mainly about Kurt Vonnegut's 1952 novel Player Piano, a speculative fabulation about the effects of automation on American life. But I read it because David F. Noble wrote so positively about it in Forces of Production, his brilliant and powerful history of automation as a tool for worker control in (especially) postwar America, which inspired several posts last year.
10. The Ancient, Glittering Eye of the Beholder. Sherman Alexie is checking you out in the shower, guys. But he's not gay.
9. The Kind of Authenticity That Can't Be Faked. About a gay photographer's commodification of men's bodies, and his curious idea that he's doing something different than his colleagues. The assumption many gay men share, that only one kind of man is desirable, has long bothered me.
8. Bomb Bomb Assad, Plus Thousands of Civilians. l didn't do much on President Obama's attempt to go to war with Syria, because (luckily) Putin arranged a diplomatic solution while Obama was pretending to ask for Congress's input on the matter. There's still an unfinished post, "Everybody Adores a Quagmire," in my drafts folder, which I should just delete.
7. Because You Are Lukewarm, I Will Spew You Out of My Mouth. On a popular closeting strategy in pop music, the use of "you" in lyrics to avoid specifying the sex of the person being sung to. It's still with us.
6. They Don't Make Sheeples Like They Used To. It's often said that the trouble with the Internet is that you can't tell whether a quotation is authentic or not. I believe it's the opposite: the Internet makes fact-checking much easier than it used to be. The trouble is that most people don't bother to check.
5. Deliver Us From People. Yes, people still believe that computers are already intelligent, sentient, and will be our best friends forever.
4. Come, Let Us Reason Together. I also hear a lot about how neuroscience can explain everything about our minds. No, it can't, not yet.
3. You Made Your Bed, Now Lay in It. Grammar/spelling/punctuation obsessives are a continuing obsession of mine.
2. A Very Practical Post. One of several posts I wrote about critical thinking last year.
1. Operatic Justice. I watched the numbers on this post rise steadily, and I still don't understand why. No one wrote to comment on it, so I have no idea why so many people checked it out. It's about a local controversy involving the loss of classical-music programming on our NPR affiliate, in which my Right-Wing Acquaintance Number One, aka RWA1, was deeply involved. (Background can be found in an earlier post.) The number-crunching management tried to replace the weekly opera broadcast with "news" programs, and had to back down. This had all kinds of implications for the eternal elitism question, but also for the place of government support for the arts in the US, and right-wing ambivalence about culture.
Other subjects I covered at length, but which didn't get as much attention from readers, include several posts on gay life in today's South Africa; two or three on a recent book about gay Christians in the American South; and several on sexually variant American Indians and the problems they pose for "Western" conceptions of homosexuality. Among my own favorites are a series on the strange idea of meritocracy, and another on ongoing flaws and failures in the psychiatric construction of mental illness. drawing on two different books. I may not have written as many posts this year as I did in 2012, but I think I've written some good stuff on some matters I consider important. Thanks to everyone who reads it.
(Views on these twenty-five posts ranged from 144 views to 652.)
Once again I decided to list the most-viewed posts to sum up the past year. Most of them are posts I agree are standouts, though as you'll see, I was very surprised by a couple of them. This post will serve as a retrospective for those who read This Is So Gay regularly, and as an introduction for people who are new to the blog.
25. You Don't Have to Be a Monster to Be a Bigot. The theme of this post turned out to be a recurring theme in 2013, as several celebrities got into trouble because of racist or antigay things they said, and were defended by fans or supposedly disinterested friends of free speech. As you'll see, I don't believe in the disinterest: in almost every case, conservatives defended conservative bigots and liberals defended liberals. (As the year drew to a close, another uproar attended a conference punk/folk performer Ani DiFranco was going to hold in a former Louisiana plantation. Here's the best thing I saw written about that one.) But I'm also intrigued by the common defense in most of these cases: the idea that calling a bigot a bigot is "demonization," transgressing the bounds of civility in public discourse. That countertactic is nothing new, but it seems to be on the rise.
24. He Brought Me Out. The subtle (sometimes not-so-subtle) eroticism of Christian imagery.
23. Declarations of Dependence. On reading May Sarton's journals about living alone, and adjusting to increasing dependence in her old age.
22. Oooohhh! I Scared Myself. Griping again about the Obama administration's inability to deal firmly but constructively with its opposition. (I looked for a video or audio clip of Tweety Bird's reading of the title line, but couldn't find one.)
21. Real Jesuses Don't Sparkle. Another post on popular Christian imagery, written before the fuss about Fox News anchor Megyn Kelly's assertion that Jesus and Santa Claus are really "white men."
20. Free Advice, Five Cents (The Doctor Is In). Freedom isn't free, including free healthcare. But that's okay.
19. Well, I Don't Speak Cracker. On the "nativist" (racist) reaction to Spanish-speaking people in the United States. (This 2013 post on "natives" didn't get as much traffic, but I think it's better.)
18. Word-Sex. A short post on grammar/spelling/pronunciation neurotics, inspired by a lovely reflection on language by Stephen Fry.
17. Perros Cruzados; or, Just As American as Everyone Else. A followup to my post on Sebastian de la Cruz, the eleven-year-old American kid who infuriated Anglo racists by singing the National Anthem (in English) on national television.
16. "Come With Me If You Want to Live" -- James Cameron. A variation on an ongoing issue, namely the authenticity of quotations from celebrities in memes on Facebook. This case intersects with the popular tendency to confuse actors with the roles they play.
15. You're Stupid, Therefore I'm Smart QED. Sure, it's fun to make fun of right-wing foolishness. It provides material for many liberal and progressive blog posts. But The Enemy of My Enemy Is Not My Friend, and just because someone else is wrong, it doesn't follow that I'm (or you're) right. The commenters of numerous liberal blogs and sites spend a lot of time bonding with each other over the stupidity of conservatives, which is a handy way of ignoring stupidity on one's own side. And alas, there's plenty to go around. As Nietzsche once wrote, it's a very popular popular misconception that having the courage of one's convictions (against opposition) is important -- rather, it's having the courage for an attack on one's own convictions. The post also deals with some questions about the nature of Art.
14. The Way It Really Went Down, Sort Of. Sure, heterosexual culture has its blind spots, crudities, and abuses. So does gay men's culture, which is the one I'm stuck with, even if I'm a fringe figure in it. And many of our blind spots, crudities, and abuses are depressingly similar to those of straights. Funny, that.
13. The Only Gays in the Global Village. Quite a few celebrities came out publicly this year. Some were surprising, at least to some people, others were not.
12. Groping the Truth. This post consists mostly of two long quotations from thinkers I admire. I don't know why it got so much traffic, but since the quotations have been important to me, I'm glad others apparently liked them.
11. Taking Jobs Away from Tape and Giving Them to Microchips. This post is mainly about Kurt Vonnegut's 1952 novel Player Piano, a speculative fabulation about the effects of automation on American life. But I read it because David F. Noble wrote so positively about it in Forces of Production, his brilliant and powerful history of automation as a tool for worker control in (especially) postwar America, which inspired several posts last year.
10. The Ancient, Glittering Eye of the Beholder. Sherman Alexie is checking you out in the shower, guys. But he's not gay.
9. The Kind of Authenticity That Can't Be Faked. About a gay photographer's commodification of men's bodies, and his curious idea that he's doing something different than his colleagues. The assumption many gay men share, that only one kind of man is desirable, has long bothered me.
8. Bomb Bomb Assad, Plus Thousands of Civilians. l didn't do much on President Obama's attempt to go to war with Syria, because (luckily) Putin arranged a diplomatic solution while Obama was pretending to ask for Congress's input on the matter. There's still an unfinished post, "Everybody Adores a Quagmire," in my drafts folder, which I should just delete.
7. Because You Are Lukewarm, I Will Spew You Out of My Mouth. On a popular closeting strategy in pop music, the use of "you" in lyrics to avoid specifying the sex of the person being sung to. It's still with us.
6. They Don't Make Sheeples Like They Used To. It's often said that the trouble with the Internet is that you can't tell whether a quotation is authentic or not. I believe it's the opposite: the Internet makes fact-checking much easier than it used to be. The trouble is that most people don't bother to check.
5. Deliver Us From People. Yes, people still believe that computers are already intelligent, sentient, and will be our best friends forever.
4. Come, Let Us Reason Together. I also hear a lot about how neuroscience can explain everything about our minds. No, it can't, not yet.
3. You Made Your Bed, Now Lay in It. Grammar/spelling/punctuation obsessives are a continuing obsession of mine.
2. A Very Practical Post. One of several posts I wrote about critical thinking last year.
1. Operatic Justice. I watched the numbers on this post rise steadily, and I still don't understand why. No one wrote to comment on it, so I have no idea why so many people checked it out. It's about a local controversy involving the loss of classical-music programming on our NPR affiliate, in which my Right-Wing Acquaintance Number One, aka RWA1, was deeply involved. (Background can be found in an earlier post.) The number-crunching management tried to replace the weekly opera broadcast with "news" programs, and had to back down. This had all kinds of implications for the eternal elitism question, but also for the place of government support for the arts in the US, and right-wing ambivalence about culture.
Other subjects I covered at length, but which didn't get as much attention from readers, include several posts on gay life in today's South Africa; two or three on a recent book about gay Christians in the American South; and several on sexually variant American Indians and the problems they pose for "Western" conceptions of homosexuality. Among my own favorites are a series on the strange idea of meritocracy, and another on ongoing flaws and failures in the psychiatric construction of mental illness. drawing on two different books. I may not have written as many posts this year as I did in 2012, but I think I've written some good stuff on some matters I consider important. Thanks to everyone who reads it.
(Views on these twenty-five posts ranged from 144 views to 652.)
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